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i had someone take my pic with my new robes….Not sure i’m happy with it. i may have to take another 🙂

More Motorcycle Stuff

I’m having a really hard time finding stuff for my motorcycle, let alone stuff for women. All the accessories seem to be skulls and crosses….which are so not my thing.

If i google ‘women riders’, it usually brings back all kinds of pictures of half-naked girls draped over bikes. Or scantily clad girls riding bikes, which is so dangerous. But, not much information or products for women riders.

But, I just found a great website, not even sure how I found it. I think it was through a link on a motorcycle facebook group where I asked about women friendly items for my bike, aka no skulls!! So, I’m going to document some links here so that I don’t lose them.

In this article, it talks about how to pack for a long trip as a woman and took a few things into consideration that a man wouldn’t think of. And now i’m moving onto a link that was there about tips for women motorcyclists. Why couldn’t I find this article when I was actually looking for one before getting my bike?

And I’m finding all kinds of links to all kinds of forums. I didn’t know forums still existed. I thought it was facebook and reddit as my only options. NOT!

Here is a link for women just starting out riding or thinking about it. Great blog!

shopping for women riders!!:


List of vendors to check out:

Motorcycle packing tips:

How to fold your chaps:

Conscious Sex

Tonight I lead the Tantra meetup group once again. We meet monthly at The Columbus Space. At this one there were 8 people and all had been to The Space before, so we were able to talk about kink and poly as well as being conscious for it all.

We talked about breathing, being present, and mindful when we are having sex.

It was really a great conversation.

And I want to document something that was said to me. I mentioned that at a swing club, people aren’t there to have conscious sex, that it’s more about the physical hiccup they call an orgasm. I talked about how I need a connection with the person, a possible ecstatic experience. There was a girl there that spends a lot of time at swing clubs and told me that i had to change my mind of what i think of them. And when i go back i need to go to just have fun. To just be there for me, not to go hunting. Dance, or play pool or something. And if there is someone that clicks with me is there, they will show up. That was very important for me to hear. To be the person I want to be and I’ll attract the person that I want to be with.

And I WANT to be with someone that believes in connecting energetically and spiritually as Divine partners….even if it’s just for that moment. Conscious sex. Conscious living.